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Have you ever experienced any of the losses listed below? The loss of:

  • A spouse
  • A child
  • A parent
  • A sibling
  • A grandparent
  • A job
  • A home
  • A close relationship
  • Good Health

Do you still feel paralyzed by your loss, unable to move on with your life? If you answered yes to any of the above, then you have arrived on the right website!


I remember NOT having good examples of how to grieve a loss. The examples I had were of family and friends who chose self destructive paths such as drinking, drugging, sexual promiscuity, bitterness, anger, resentment and unforgiviness. What about you?


If you have experienced any type of loss and are still struggling with the acceptance stage of your grief journey, I have hope and inspiration that you will come through this test and trial of your faith! Help is finally here!


In my new book, My #1 Is Still My #1! I share how God is THE BEST Life Coach in helping us to not only GO through life’s tests and trials, but to emerge victorious as we COME through them! I lost half of my family, twice, due to automobile accidents and had to learn how to allow God to coach me through my grief. Now that I have COME through, I can share the way out with others who are still stuck in their grief journeys.


I have accepted this call as a ministry to help others who are still hurting and in need of emotional healing from their spirit of heaviness due to their losses. As a result of reading this book, you will be inspired by the resurrection power of God to heal your broken heart, just as He did mine. You will be encouraged to rise up to see what your expected end will be because the best is still yet to come in your life!


Book Excerpts


My family is late; they should have been home by now.

I’m watching the news and the lead in story says that a middle-age man and his teen-age daughter died as their car caught on fire after being hit by a train. My heart sinks as I immediately begin to pray for the family of the accident.

I’m still trying to reach, my husband, Kevin, by phone to see where he is in the traffic due to the accident on TV. I call the girls’ school to see what time Kevin signed them out and Ms. Taylor, the school’s director, reported it was at 5:20 P.M. My heart pounds really fast now because I’m panicking. Still no answer on your cell phone! You checked the girls out of school by 5:20 P.M. The accident happened at 5:30 P.M. according to the news. I don’t believe it’s MY FAMILY because they refer to the man as being middle-aged, with a teenage daughter and no mention of an infant. I tried calling you again and received no answer on your cell phone.

There’s an update on the news with a live report from the scene. They say that an infant girl, around 1 year old, was rescued from the vehicle before it blew up and caught on fire and she was at the hospital in critical condition. What?!

I can’t believe what my ears just heard!

Kevin was not middle-aged! Naomi was only 10 years old! Where did they get the information of the ages for the victims from? Was that you and Naomi they were saying was already dead on the 6:00 P.M. news? No way!! I tried calling you again on your cell phone and still no answer!

I watched the live pictures on TV and saw the back of my SUV and recognized the "God Is Awesome" frame on the rear license plate and realized that all this time I’ve been waiting for you all and praying for the family from the news report, it was US!

YOU DIDN’T ANSWER YOUR CELL PHONE BECAUSE YOU WERE DEAD!

I WAS THE FAMILY I HAD BEEN PRAYING FOR! YOU ALL WILL NEVER MAKE IT HOME AGAIN!